Mark L. Lusk
“I would like to share with my friends the thoughts that hit me when the reality that we had lost Sam Pilafian. The joyful memories, the genuine feeling of loss and the universal respect expressed by others over the last few days has been quite moving and inspirational.
As we all struggle for the proper words, may I suggest that we look to the past for some answers.
Please take a moment to read through this paraphrased version of a recording that I listen to at least once a week, and that I share with anyone in search of reason and purpose. It is Howard Hanson's powerful eulogy to his Eastman colleague of 50 years, Emory Remington.
These words have never rang more true than when I think of Sam:
"Of a few men can it be said that he became a legend in his own time. Of this small group, Sam Pilafian was most honored member.
The brass world over the past has been blessed with an astonishing number of great teachers, and in the top most echelon of this distinguished group must be engraved forever the name of our friend to whom we pay tribute this day.
Many people have tried to analyze, to intellectualize his teaching, but without conspicuous success. I can think of many conversations where friends and colleagues try to come up with what was Sam’s secret? We often simply came to the conclusion that “we don’t know, but if we did, we could write the world’s most definitive book on teaching.”
Perhaps we may look to that greatest of all textbooks for the answer; “By their fruits shall we know them.” Certainly the fruits of his labor we’re very rich indeed.
His students have enjoyed great success, and will continue to make a tremendous mark on the world. His colleagues and acquaintances are a Who's Who of the Art world. But, I think there is more to it than this. I think that I may know Sam Pilafian‘s secret!
Like many of the testimonials over the last couple days, while my acquaintance and experience with this remarkable man is fleeting in comparison, it is no less inspirational and unforgettable. But the man, his music and his teaching have been a constant inspiration for me throughout my career. I think I have the answer.
The Answer is I believe that in spite of his technical knowledge, in spite of his science and his art, Sam Pilafian never really did teach the tuba...he taught people! He taught human beings. He taught human souls and human hearts. He had knowledge. He had technique. He was a master of pedagogy. He had dedication in immeasurable quantity and quality. He had empathy. He had sympathy. But he had something else!
It is symbolized by four letter word. A good four letter word. A four letter word that could change the entire world if it had half a chance. The word is L.. O.. V.. E.. LOVE!! He loved music. He loved the tuba. But most important of all he loved people, leaving behind him a rich legacy beyond the price of all gold and silver. His requiem might indeed well read; “ Three things remain Faith, Hope , and Love. But the greatest of these is LOVE.”
Thanks, Sam
and thanks Howard Hanson for the help!”
